Sentintal value can only work when two people are equal or disadvantaed people still et the nistandards. 情感价值只有在男女双方条件匹配或者条件差但是没有低于自己的最低标准，这时候的情感价值才能锦上添花。 If you are still courted by reed to handle what exceeds one''''s abilities when you don''''t et the requirents, you y run into so lecher n and be his stress. 条件不对等，你却还要不认命地飞蛾扑火，强行去做超出自己能力的事情，很可能会让自己遇到外面的“采花贼”被小三了。 The self-cultivation of a won is to try our best to ke these delinquent people out of our social circle. All n who "wander" outside are not worthy of one lance of a ood won, whatever the excuses are. 一个女人的自我修炼就是想努力把那些作风不好，不受道德束缚的人排除出自己的社交圈，所有在外“游荡”的男人不管有什么理由都是不值得好女人一个眼神的。 A real outstandin n st be overconfident and self-conceited, like a won. They are the hardest to et close to, althouh they y look entle, polite, and dest unless you have sothin worthwhile that attracts the 真正优秀的男人一般都有着一颗骄傲自负的心，这一点和我们女人是一样的，别看他们平时文质彬彬谦恭有礼，其实是最难靠近的，除非你自己有值得让对方靠近的价值。 We are the sa in ny thins, althouh??n and won are different in ender. 男女虽然性别不同，但是在很多事情上的态度是一样的。 So the true entlen will not co to the entertainnt parlor while the n who arrives is no ood. 所以真正的君子是不会来歌伎坊，来歌伎坊的男人就与好字无缘。 Most n who co to the entertainnt parlor are here to flirt with beautiful won. Won like us will surely be their stresses outside or their secret lovers or secret affair if we entrust ourselves to a n like this. 这些来歌伎坊的男人大多都是图我们女人的色相而